I will make this as brief as possible without leaving out the important details. I was involved with a man named JR. We were together a total of about 7 years. We were not married but in a long term relationship. We met when we worked for the same company. He moved in shortly after we got together and everything was good. Then he started hanging out with our mutual friends at work (all female). I didnt actually suspect he was cheating on me with any of them I think they were just trying to split us up because a couple of them were interested in him before we got together. Fast forward a few years to about year five in 2007. This UGLY girl Kristi Geary is about 8 to 10 years younger than me started working there and they started a friendship. Im not a controlling person but I feel if you have a friendship with a person of the opposite sex I should be included in this friendshipwhich I definitely was NOT. They would go to lunch together while he made no effort to include me even with us all working together! He would say he was staying at his dads when really I felt otherwise being that I never knew at most given times where his dad lived nor did I know where she lived. Some time goes by I catch her in my house when I was gone hiding in my sons dark room. We get in a fight and he gets physical with me. The pattern starts. I catch him in lies, his phone is always locked but sometimes I see little messages and accused or ask him. He gets violent most times about it and refuses to leave. Fast forward to my cousins wedding. I find open email with communication going back and forth between him and same said homewrecker saying I love yous and talking about times together on his bike etc. Never mention I helped him buy this bike! Never mention I have WARNED this homewrecker to stay away three times now and that he is mine. I had heard she was pregnant but also heard she had messed around with my mans best friend so it could be his! I find her number through this email communication and she admits that yes she is pregnant and yes its my mans child! No remorse for it at all. I finally have the right ammunition to kick him out for good. He finally leaves and moves in with her and her parents. The baby is born and he is there for the kid which I never keep him from doing so. Yes my dumb ass takes him back. I loved him! So again the pattern starts but not as much. I of course suspect he is going off with her especially since I find out she has her own place now. I run into a friend at a laundry mat that tells me she is running her mouth at work telling people that she is hooking up with him at my place at lunch time. See we lived only five minutes from work and since then I had found another job and he was unemployed. She was still working at the same place. The friend tells me about where they live. I work third shift one night and early in the morning after my shift about 8 am find his car at her apartment complex. I luckily find the right apartment because the doors are thin and I can hear him and her talking. I try to call him. I hear him pick up his phone twice and hang it up. I finally knock on the door to her in just a nasty pink robe. Kristi Geary refuses to admit anything except she doesnt get involved with me and his relationship?! I look down at the kid and look at her and say really? I mean isnt it a bit late for THAT? Anyway I kick him out for good. He of course moves in with her. She gets pregnant AGAIN by him about a year later. Meanwhile he is still trying to talk about us working it out. He asks me to marry him right before she gets pregnant for the second time. I say NO. When she is pregnant for the second time she comes to my house. She explains he always told her we were not together etc. I said well that was a lie and you knew it because I told you on several occasions we were together and we lived together! She apologized BUT still no good explanation of why she continued after him when I told her to stop several times. She went after what she wanted and listened to what Kristi Geary wanted to hear. I do blame her but he knew better as well. In fact just last week he was trying again to get with me sexually and I found out they got married within the same week! Im sure that if I told her what scum he was she wouldnt believe me but she married him now its her problem. Kristi Geary went after it and got it. Im posting pictures that she has posted publicly of herself. Its nothing I had to dig for. Kristi Geary never shows her teeth because she has none! She is either really damn stupid or just wants what she wants at any cost. My 10 year old son was very attached to him since he had been around him since he was 1 and neither of them thought of anything or anyone but themselves in any of it. Good luck to both these losers! I have moved on with a wonderful man and the only reason I post this story is to warn people of these jerk offs and what they are capable of.
Ok just because Shaun Hicks canÕt get a man to marry her doesnÕt mean she should whore around with everyone elseÕs! Disgusting slob that ÒmanagesÓ run down apartments in Evansville Addison Place might expect her to be a bit more professional. I will continue to live in my large brick home driving my luxury vehicle while she continues to live in the ghetto! Lol she can have him if she wants but he just used her to try to get back at me. He felt better being with someone Òbelow his leagueÓ she did get her big muffin top belly full at Gerst haus though and took money/food out of my childrenÕs hands- and that I will not stand for!! You always reap what you sow
Well for starters I have dated 2 men that have received the same exact photos from this hoe!
I was with the first guy for 5 years and engaged and nothing is ever perfect but we had went house hunting and she was our realtor from century 21 on 96th street in Indianapolis, IN. Within a hour of us leaving she called him (which she was told to go through me as he is very busy as a financial advisor). She trys to talk all sexy in her spanish and blink her eyes. Even rubbing up against him and saying oh I’m so sorry. Come to find out 2 weeks later I found these on his phone! I blame not just her but him as well. She should never pursue a engaged man! She has a 4 year old daughter also! What type of example is that!
Second guy basically same thing! Was with him for 2 years and we ran into her out at a private party. I went to the restroom and she was all over my man! I came out & gave her a look as you remember who I am! She walked away and later brushed herself up against him and said oh excuse me. 2 weeks later I find out she has been sending the same exact photos to my man as she did the last one! Not sure if she is just after everyones men or just mine! But I have met 2 other women that she has sent the EXACT same photos to.
She is trashy and has the saggiest boobs in the world. Thinks she is all that since she is brazilian. Too bad for her daughter when she sees this as she matures. Her mom is a whore and a homewrecker! I want everyone to be warned about this slut!
I just wanted to inform everyone about this “man” and his filthy little secret!, so that it may spare someone the horrible heartbreak that I had, and that they don’t waste their time and effort. John and I started dating in June of 2012. We met through a dating website (POF) and he seemed like the perfect guy. We texted all day and talked on the phone for hours every night. he was so sweet and even though we lived 4 hours apart, he still surprised me in the cutest of ways by sending me flowers or stuff like that. In August i moved to west lafayette because i started attending Purdue University. Between him working full time and having drill one weekend of the month (since he is in the army NG), and me going to school all during the week and working on the weekends, we only saw each other one weekend out of the month. But even then, things were great. We always had the best time together and shared wonderful memories. We would go back and forth writing each other long sweet texts professing our love for each other and it was seriously like a fairy tale. But i noticed it started to stop sometime in january. i would send him the texts, but he wouldn’t send them back. And when i brought this to his attention, he would say it was because he was busy hanging out with a friend and he’d send one later, or he fell sleep and forgot. Well in March of 2013, I found out I was pregnant. He was supposed to be deployed to Egypt that June, but the day after I found out, his deployment was cancelled and I thought it was fate. I finished out the semester and we got an apartment together in May in his hometown (4 hours away from all of my family and friends). I moved down there to be with him and start our family together. I found a great job within 2 weeks and things were going great.
Then I started to notice changes. He went out every weekend to the bars with his buddies, leaving me at home alone with nothing to do and no one to hangout with or talk to. I couldn’t even go if i wanted to because A) i was only 20. and B) he didn’t want me out in crowded public places because “there’s a lot of stupid drunk idiots out there and somebody could bump into me and god forbid it caused any harm to the baby”. Well i started getting suspicious because he would stay out at the bars until 4am, yet they closed at 3. (and he also got a DUI in July after blowing a .15 and had his license suspended for a month and was put on probation for the next year, yet still went out and drank at the bars anyways because his best friend was a cop) He would hide his phone and take it with him when he went to shower or poop. He kept a lock on his phone which I always had the code for, but then he started changing it and any time I would ask for it, he’d get defensive or make up and excuse. And if i figured it out, he’d change it again the next day.
One night I had figured out the passcode to his phone and I unlocked it. I saw he had a snapchat from some girl, so I viewed it, and it was a picture of her VAGINA. Not full blown, but it was a straight shot of her pants unzipped with panties on. Needless to say my mouth dropped and I woke him up right then pissed off asking questions (bad idea. always stay cool and get your ducks in a row first). well he of course played it off and said that she was just a an ex girlfriend of one of his friends and he had no idea why she would send him something like that and that he’d block her. well i knew better, but of course gave him the benefit of the doubt. He then got a second part time job to help save extra money before our daughter was born and i had gone to visit him at work one night and all the girls were very friendly with me and knew we were together and expecting a child except ONE girl. she just glared at me and never said a word. Well i noticed they were friends on facebook and she too was taken with a child. well i added her and she never accepted. Then i saw text messages on his phone between the two of them like they were trying to get to know each other (like you do when you first start talking to someone–asking for pictures, etc). and i asked him about it. he told me it was his buddy at work texting her from his phone bc his was broken. I knew that was probably bullshit but when we hung out with this friend one evening, i asked him about it when john had gone to the restroom and he confirmed it, so i let it go. (turns out he was just covering for him) oh and the best part was that after i eventually found all this out, i also found out that this particular girl lived in the same neighborhood as us, just a street over!!
Well he quit that job soon after because he said he didnt like it there and got another part time job working at family video. (he had worked there before and left on good terms so they hired him right away). well he worked there up until a few days before our daughter was born and then just stopped showing up and eventually got fired bc he didnt want to have to work for thanksgiving.
Well November 2013 comes and i have my daughter, the most beautiful little girl in the world. He was right there with me every step of the way, through the 16 and a half hours of labor. I had her and he stayed there with me the entire 3 days we were in the hospital. He seemed so full of love and protection (like a father should have) that i thought maybe he’d realize that a family is more important than anyone or anything. He had taken the next week off of work so he could stay home and be there with us and i was on paid maternity leave for 6 weeks from my job. He came straight home from work every day and would stay home every weekend (except the weekends he had drill).
Well one day his buddy’s girlfriend (who had become my best friend) told me that her boyfriend (johns BEST FRIEND) had told her one night that John had cheated on me with a girl named Olivia in the Family Video store where he used to work. That he was closing one night and she came and saw him and they had sex in one of the aisles (aisle 4 or something because it had no cameras) and that this happened like a week before my daughter was born. Well i was furious because this was the SAME GIRL that had befriended me months prior, and we had actually hung out a couple times and she came over to our apartment one day after our daughter was born. I thought it was strange how he just sat there on his xbox playing his game and barely ackowledged her, and how she was perfectly fine with whipping out her boob and breastfeeding her 3 month old daughter (Yes, she had a daughter, was a year younger than me, and her babys dad wants nothing to do with her or her kid). Well of course i freak out on him and ask him about it and he says shes making it all up. that his friend would never say anything like that and that it never happened.
Well, Christmas time comes around and his buddy (the one who’s a cop) posts a status on facebook saying hes drinking with a buddy of his and invites john over. John comments on it and says no he cant (because we were sitting there watching a movie) and his buddy comments back and says that his “hitler-ette” needed to calm down and stop controlling him. So i blew up on his buddy and he said that the only reason john was with me was because i got pregnant and that if i was smarter and had used birth control then i wouldnt even be here right now. So john went off on his buddy and actually stood up for me and i told him i want nothing to do with him at all and he is not allowed over at our house or to see our daughter. He complied and his buddys name wasnt brought up ever again and they never hung out (even though they had “made up” with eachother and still texted occasionally).
Well in february, this same friend of his was caught red handed cheating on his girlfriend (my now best friend) with some girl for the last 2 months. Well stuff happened between them that i wont say, but now instead of being a police officer, hes sitting in prison for the next 8 years and can have no contact with either of his daughters or his ex girlfriend (my friend). Well the night this all happened, i wake up to a text message saying “we were right. they were cheating with (so and so)”. So i wake john up and tell him what she said and he said that she was making s*** up to try to break us up since her relationship was going to s***. And since i had no proof, i let it go.
Well I had posted a status about cheaters and a week later i get an anonymous letter in the mail at my WORK, addressed to me, stating (in poorly disguised sloppy handwriting) that they saw my status and know for a fact that john had cheated on me with atleast 3 different girls, and gave names. and that they thought i should know (and one of the girls names was Olivia, from earlier in my story). Well this time i didnt automatically show him my evidence and accuse him. i played it cool and wanted to gather everything. So i figured out the password to his verizon account and looked at his phone records and saw a number continuously popping up on there. well i looked it up on facebook and low and behold, its another girl i know. i printed off everything!
That night, iIwake up around 1 because my daughter started crying and i started to feed her so she could go back to sleep. His phone goes off at 1:30 in the morning. I heard it vibrate, but it didnt light up. (he has an iphone) so i click the home button, and it doesn’t show anything on the screen. (keep in mind his phone is also locked, so i can’t check it fully because i don’t know the password). well then it goes off again, but it was a different vibration than before and the phone actually lit up this time. i look and its some comment notification for facebook. so right then and there is when i knew that he had blocked the notifications for texts so that i couldn’t see (since it shows the first part of the message on the lock screen) so i waited until he finally woke up at 5:30 that morning and went to check his phone, like he does every morning. and i told him to wait, and that i wanted to sit behind him as he checked it. he immediately asked why and i said because somebody texted you at 1:30 in the morning and the notification did not show on the screen so i wanna know who it is. he instantly got defensive and said no! that he wasn’t going to keep doing this s*** and that i need to trust him. and i said all i want to know is who texted you, and he said “its none of your f****** business who i talk to, and if you dont like it then you can f****** leave”.
That was on a Wednesday, in may. That Saturday night, he went out to the bars and got extremely drunk, and for the first time in the past year and a half, I went over to a bonfire with my friend and 2 of her girl friends. it was just the four of us plus her friends husband and his buddy. I asked John’s mom and sister to babysit for a couple hours so that I could hangout and have a nice time, and they were more than happy to. well after I had been there for about an or two, johns sister calls me and tells me that john found out they were babysitting and got extremely pissed off that I wasn’t home with our daughter. so I told her i’d be home soon and she said he was already on his way home. well then i get a call from john who asks me what I’m doing, I tell him I’m at a bonfire and he flips out on me and says how could O pawn our kid off to somebody else (when it was his mom and sister) and that I was a horrible mother. (yet he was the one who was piss ass drunk). Then he tells me that I shouldnt even bother coming home because hes gonna lock me out. So I drive immediately home and hes sitting on the couch with his buddy, and his mom and sister are sitting on the other end of the couch with my daughter. I walk in, because the door was unlocked and he gets up and goes to the bathroom (where he started puking his guts out bc thats how drunk he was–the same man that blew a .15 and thought he was perfectly fine to drive and “hadn’t drank that much”). well his sister and i go outside and she explains to me what happened when he got home. he flew into a rage and started screaming stuff and saying how i was nuts if i thought i was going to be able to come in this house and blah blah blah. well his sister told him to the stfu and said “shes a mother. You know what shes going to do when she gets home and she can’t get inside the house, where her daughter is? shes going to call the cops. you’re drunk and on probation. You’ll go to jail! quit being an idiot and calm down!”. and thats the only reason the door was unlocked when I got home. well we didnt say a word to each other the rest of the night and him and his buddy passed out, and I slept on the couch.
The next morning was mothers day and I spent it with my daughter and my friend and her daughter and we had a great day with just us. Later that day, one of his own friends had called me and asked what had happened between us bc he saw we weren’t together on facebook and I told him why and he said that was in fact cheating on me with this one girl, the one he claimed was texting his buddy through his phone. and how he bragged about it to him saying “oh this girl is texting me and sending me these pics and what not” all happy about it. So that following Saturday, while he was at drill, my parents and my cousin came down with their 12 passenger van and pickup and they moved all of mine and my daughters stuff back to fort wayne to my parents house. He freaked out on me initially and posted a bunch of bullshit on facebook to get sympathy from people who had no idea what really happened, and I filed that Monday for child support and we had our court date in july because he didn’t want to agree on more than $200 a month for support when I’m paying $500 a month in day care alone. Sso now he’s paying $200 a week court ordered, sees his daughter every other Tuesday thru Friday, and I am doing perfectly fine without him. 🙂 I would post the girls that he cheated on me with, but to be honest, I don’t even know all of their names because there were too many to count. They all knew we were together, hell the whole town did because its a tiny town, yet still fIIked around with him. but, as soon as I started to get suspicious about one, he’d drop them and move on to the next. So he’s the real HOMEWRECKER in this story and he deserves to be here and those girls will get what’s coming to them as will he 🙂 The only thing I am thankful for throughout this whole mess was my beautiful daughter, and the fact that besides his lying cheating ways, he is actually a good father to her.